I’m back home 

 So I’m back. I’m not going to lie – I wish I was still there. In France. There are people I missed over in England but I had my favourite people in world with me at the time (yes before I get texts saying what about me? There were 4 or 5 people of whom I missed so much as well) anyhow I’m home and wishing I was still there and complaining about how it went to quick. However, don’t we all?      Have any of you guys been to see your moved away relatives lately? I’m going to be totally honest on the way back to England I was just listening to music and sometimes I found myself trying to fight the tears and telling myself you’ll see them soon. I hope I do. So next weeks post I think will be about how to deal with leaving your moved away relatives. I hope it’ll help you (and maybe even me)

            I also just want to say are my posts to short? I would really appreciate it if you left a comment below saying whether you like the length they’re at or whether you’d like the, to be longer. Thanks guys.

            My upload of montage videos will hopefully be up on my YouTube channel by Friday and I’ll give you all the details in my next post.

Harri xo

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I’m going to France!!!

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Love you Pops 💙

Oh My Goodness!!

Best week ever! Number one: I have finally blogged in the exact day I said I would – like blogged weekly is what I’m trying to say and number two: I’m going to France!!!!!!!!

Hashtag: Happy! I’m going to France! I thought it would never happen, but no, here it is. I’m sat here; with my iPad open writing this up whilst listening to some of my favourite songs on my iPhone. Not much better than that. Music + writing = heaven! But anyway, back to the point, I’ve decided that when I’m in France I’m going to take lots of photos and put them into my memory box but as well, I’ve got this app on my iPad and iPhone where I can put all of these photos and videos together to create a big montage video – I shall try and put it up on here however, it might not work so go and check out my YouTube channel and watch it on there:
Just go onto YouTube and in the search bar type Harri Hamer and my channel will come up. I’ll tell you on this blog when I’ve uploaded it and so you can check it out if you’d like and I’d really love it if you did – and also because I haven’t said anything yet:
merry Christmas and happy new year. How was everyone’s new year and Christmas? Hope it was great tell me below.

Love you all Harri xo

Thank You!!

I woke up this morning and I checked my emails. I’d got an interesting email; it was about this blog, a summary of my year of blogging. It said all these facts about how 400 people have read my blog – a cable car can only hold 70 people so if everyone on my blog went on a cable car it’d have to run 7 times!! Wow! I want to thank all you amazing people who come to my blog and read this blog.

I can’t wait for my blogging year in 2016!! Please keep reading my blog in 2016 and keep enjoying what you see.

All the best

Harri xx

Lies; What are they good for?

Hi guys,

Sorry I haven’t posted in a while. However, the reason for that is that I’ve been preparing this post for about 1 week. It’s about lying.

Something happened last week, I did something utterly gobsmacking and horrible. I lied, but not just to anyone but the people I love. I stupidly and idiotically dropped my phone into the bath. I was shell shocked and shaken up by the whole thing. Of all the things to do this? I grabbed it out and acted as if nothing had ever happened. Well, that was the first mistake. My mum straight out asked me whether I’d dropped it in the bath; I said no. I felt like a stone had come an hit me on the head. it was horrible. I couldn’t bare the guilt and so I burst out with tears upon her. I told her the truth. what was worse was the fact that she was disappointed in me not the fact that I’d lied to her.

Anyway, what I’m saying is if you’ve ever lied to anyone (that could be someone who’s moved away or indeed anyone) phone them up, send them an email do whatever you do to contact them and apologize to them. I’m sure as children we have all lied and if that’s the case you’ll have probably forgotten (not because your old by the way but just the fact that you don’t really think as a child). I know I didn’t when I was lying.

My tip or advice or whatever you want to call is never lie, and if you do ask yourself why and what good comes from it?

Harri x

How to deal with stress, confusion and pressure

Hi guys,

Sorry I haven’t posted in a while it’s just school takes up so much of my life. Also, I have a lot of personal things going on at the moment, this leads to what I’m posting now.

Pressure, stress and confusion; how do I deal with these things? I feel as though I am the person to ask.
Firstly, I am different from other people. I have about 4 true friends who are boys, but on the other hand I have loads of girls (who are just friends) of whom I spend all my time with. I have a YouTube account (Harri Hamer is the name by the way – check it out if you’d like), People get bullied; I get bullied for all reasons above.
Secondly, see it as a good thing. For me: I have guts to stand out and start a YouTube account. I hang out with girls; I once made the mistake of losing three really close friends who were girls because of bullying – I do have a bond with them but it’s not as strong anymore.
Next, you will always have bullies, pressure, stress and confusion in life. You wake up in the morning and look through your bag thinking ‘oh my gosh have I got this?, have I got that?’ That’s confusion. Also another thing ‘oh my gosh, this coat is so old. It’s got ripped’ that’s pressure to get a new coat and stress. And one last one ‘oh my gosh I’m talking to girls and the popular kids are looking at me and sniggering’ bullying – that’s the bit I get.
So for you guys I’ve come up with an idea. 5 things on how to deal with all of the above.

1. No matter what never give up to bullying – easier said than done I know. I’ve been there I’ve done that. As I said before I lost three really brilliant friends because of this. People bully because their insecure in themselves or because their jealous; choose your answer and move on.

2. Don’t be afraid to stand out from the crowd – I have bought fashionable clothes. I have tried to act cool, but you know what none of that even matters. If everybody in this world was the same then live’d be boring. It only matters what you think of yourself. If your not happy with yourself your the only person to be able to anything about it.

3. Stress is hard but your not alone – the fact is whatever your going through, the person sat next to you in maths for one hour is also going through the same thing. Everybody gets stressed. You will always have stress and pressure. Talk to your friends, family, teachers etc. Get it out of your system. Which leads me on to my next point.

4. Never bottle anything up. Ever – talk. I know this isn’t always the easiest thing but you have got to do it. No matter who you talk to it’ll work. The fact is most people will have been through similar things; you might get more out of it than you think.

5. Confusion – you will always have confusion. It’s nothing really bad but sometimes if your confused about something it can lead to pressure and stress and so on. My Pops recently went into hospital – he was diagnosed with Cancer (thankfully he’s actually doing really well and he’s able to do thing again – if your reading this Pops ‘I love you xxx’

I hope that what has helped me in the passed had helped you now. Obviously everyone is different but people can learn and take from each other – so try and take my advice and all the above on board.

Harri X

I’m Back!!! 🖐🏼

20140530-200322-72202557.jpg        I’m Harri for you who have may of forgotten.
As you probably know my grandparents live in France. I’m now in secondary school and by the title I’m back.
I come back to my Blogging life as a 12 (almost 13 year old) I’m back and this time I’m more serious and ready than ever. I will be uploading weekly and the only reason I stopped is because of school and things that go on in a teenagers life. However lately something happened; it made me feel as though it was a sign to start this blog again. Its not the best thing though. My Pops got diagnosed with Cancer. I don’t want to talk about it much because I want him to see this. He doesn’t want it to be all about him. He just wants to be treated the same as always. For that I look up to him.

Harri X

Dear Wellknown people

I’m really enjoying my blog, but however I don’t want it to just be about grandparents.

I want it to be about all people who miss their family members or close friends because they have had to move away.

I have therefore decided to ask well known people such as football players and actors and other people in the media how they keep in touch with their loved ones when they have to work away.

I am going to try and connect over my mums twitter account and direct them to this page and ask them to leave a comment

Here goes …….

Dear well known person:

My name is Harrison and I started this blog because my grandparents moved abroad and I missed them and still do.

I wouldn’t have wanted them not to go but I have missed them a lot and i am interested in talking to others about how they keep in touch with loved ones away from home.

As a famous person I think you must have had to spend time away from your loved ones.

I am therefore going to ask you one question – please would you leave a comment about how you kept in touch and how you managed the time apart.

Thank you very much

– Harri